Where the fuck are girls?

[jacey.ATX]

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

I'm trying not to start crying in the middle of class right now. That is so beautiful.

Your emotional response tells me you've found something that really resonates with you. Tears are like roadmaps. Don't avoid them-- follow them. So if this poster makes you want to cry, don't let it go. Make it your instructions for creating the life that you want. Read it every single day. Memorize it. Make it your motto.

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

I want these things, I want passion, I want to love life, I want to embrace every moment I have in what I know is a beautiful world.

I have to admit, I was REALLY losing faith in you, Sleep. But this is the most open and honest you have been and I believe it shows that you are lovable and capable of change and growth. I have some feedback:

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

I know I'm mostly just bitching, but it really gets hard sometimes. Love is what I want more then anything else in the world, and yes I know I'm putting it on a pedestal, and having to go so long without it has turned me into this bitter angry dark soul.

I hear what you're saying. And I can relate. That is really, really tough. And you're justified in feeling sad and upset about it. I totally get it. Truly.

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

If no one wants what I have to offer, then I must not have anything to offer in the first place. If no one else loves me then obviously I don't deserve to even be loved by myself.

Here's the most important part.
You must go out and create a life that you love in order to really love yourself, and in order to have something to offer another person. And you have the power to do that. I know it's frustrating that it has to be this way, but you have to find that passion and that self-love BEFORE you can have the kind of intimate connection you want. I wish it wasn't that way. And I know you're pissed off that a lot of people who really don't have their shit together have what seem to you to be appealing relationships. But you just can't focus on that. That is not how your life is going to work. You're going to have to go out and slay some dragons, Sleep. But in the end, you will be the hero of your story. And my guess is there will be a beautiful maiden waiting at the other side.

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

i just want a fucking soul to connect with.

This is what we all want. I want it. I'm not there yet. And I'm 31. But I know I'm not ready for that yet. I still have some dragons of my own to slay. So, see? You're not alone. Everyone in a loveless marriage, everyone single and not wanting to be, everyone getting divorced as we speak... we're all in the same club you're in. And we all have to work to get out of it. But in the meantime, you have to live your life for you.

[jacey.ATX]

Originally Posted by DudeEMETIB

I concur.

He didn't say that! You made that up!
I'm no hero, I swear. But that's very sweet.

[crecentroll]

Mr sleep,
Are you still in Charlotte? I will again put the offer on the table to go have few beers...you never PMd me last time.

The plan would be to just go hang out and talk and maybe even hit on a few girls. Or at the least talk to them ( first steps...).

Let me know, this would be a good step in the right direction

[grillmanj]

Originally Posted by jacey.ATX

Your emotional response tells me you've found something that really resonates with you. Tears are like roadmaps. Don't avoid them-- follow them. So if this poster makes you want to cry, don't let it go. Make it your instructions for creating the life that you want. Read it every single day. Memorize it. Make it your motto.



I have to admit, I was REALLY losing faith in you, Sleep. But this is the most open and honest you have been and I believe it shows that you are lovable and capable of change and growth. I have some feedback:



I hear what you're saying. And I can relate. That is really, really tough. And you're justified in feeling sad and upset about it. I totally get it. Truly.


Here's the most important part.
You must go out and create a life that you love in order to really love yourself, and in order to have something to offer another person. And you have the power to do that. I know it's frustrating that it has to be this way, but you have to find that passion and that self-love BEFORE you can have the kind of intimate connection you want. I wish it wasn't that way. And I know you're pissed off that a lot of people who really don't have their shit together have what seem to you to be appealing relationships. But you just can't focus on that. That is not how your life is going to work. You're going to have to go out and slay some dragons, Sleep. But in the end, you will be the hero of your story. And my guess is there will be a beautiful maiden waiting at the other side.



This is what we all want. I want it. I'm not there yet. And I'm 31. But I know I'm not ready for that yet. I still have some dragons of my own to slay. So, see? You're not alone. Everyone in a loveless marriage, everyone single and not wanting to be, everyone getting divorced as we speak... we're all in the same club you're in. And we all have to work to get out of it. But in the meantime, you have to live your life for you.

Look sleep ATX has alot of good points and I think she see's you but may not have said it so you can understand. If your looking for magic and wedding bells this perfect unification with your first experience you're going to have to wait a long time you don't find your soul mate with your first lay most of the time. That being said you will have to be someone your usually not to bang out that first piece of ass. Sleep you will have to be confident border line cocky most girls don't want a wall flower (someone who sits at the bar watching everyone else have fun but is to shy to get out there and shake there ass). It's not about how good you are although this usually reflects the caliber of ass your going to get but remember you are not looking for the hottest smartest best piece of ass around, if you are you will have to show more patience otherwise grow some balls put yourself out there and see what comes of it P.S. might want to try somewhere else besides your school I think maybe you already made an impression and that is of a desperate virgin my friend. Remember confidence don't forget when you where a kid if you didn't ask for it you didn't get it.

[jacey.ATX]

Originally Posted by grillmanj

Look sleep ATX has alot of good points and I think she see's you but may not have said it so you can understand. If your looking for magic and wedding bells this perfect unification with your first experience you're going to have to wait a long time you don't find your soul mate with your first lay most of the time.

We're just talking about two different things. I'm talking about finding happiness and connection and love and you're talking about getting laid. But yes, you're right. He'll get laid before he finds love.

Okay! No more fucking forums for me! Speaking of going out and creating your life... I am going to go do a little of that myself.

[FletchLives]

i'm not going to read a single goddamn post in this thread. all have to say is, really doctorsleep?
someone end this rubbish.

[Rawn]

I love these threads because they're helping me as well. That poster is great, I'm going to print it out and stick it on my wall. My housemates/friends are always carrying on about how you have to have a positive attitude to feel good about stuff. If you're always negative/pessimistic, everything will always seem bad even if it isn't.

I know this post isn't helpful to you, sleep, but I'd just like to thank everyone for their advice cause even it's aimed just at you, I at least am getting something out of it too.

[Jo_Culprit]

Originally Posted by Rawn

but I'd just like to thank everyone for their advice cause even it's aimed just at you, I at least am getting something out of it too.

Well at least someone is.

I'm gonna go sit in the corner, bleed from the brain and mutter gypsy curses under my breath.

[tempfoot]

Originally Posted by Space Indaver

Oh sweet Jesus tittyfuck.

Well said.



My theory is that Sleep is a weaponized AI, sent back in time to destroy the KATG forums and combat HUAR in its infancy. Some kind of Stuxnet designed to make our heads explode.

Each new post is another more refined iteration of the AI. It's learning......

[Space Indaver]

Originally Posted by tempfoot

Well said.



My theory is that Sleep is a weaponized AI, sent back in time to destroy the KATG forums and combat HUAR in its infancy. Some kind of Stuxnet designed to make our heads explode.

Each new post is another more refined iteration of the AI. It's learning......

Its OK though, HUAR Command will send a naked dude back in time to help us.