3073: Shulogy w/ Shuli Egar
 

Howard Stern; the Wack Pack; family

Guest:
Shuli Egar
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awesome guest!!! love love loved

nobody talked to me about sex except that there would be throngs of molesters lining up for me and tell an adult if i feel uncomfortable when someone touches me. the molesters never came. and that was the end of referencing my genitals in any way in conversation. i wasn’t even told to wait until marriage. Mom assumed i’d just osmote that from the zeitgeist. i had a set of medical encyclopedias i poured over, so that’s where i got all my info. and scarleteen.com; they were really doing the lord’s work getting healthy information out to young people in the ye olde days of the internet. cyber sexing on AOL filled in the gaps.

I loved this guest so much. And the glee Chemda experienced at his reaction to Keith’s childhood stories was just amazing. I hope to hear him again soon.

As for the sex talk, that is something my parents did a fairly decent job on. They had me when they were 19 and 20 in a small Catholic town. I was born 3 months before they got married; I am not in any of the pictures. They were always fairly honest. My mom told me it was one of the most wonderful things in the world if it was with the right person. And when I told her I was going to wait until I got married she said, don’t be so sure about that, or something along those lines. They weren’t hippies either. They were pretty strict with us. I would be grounded if I got below a B+ in a class. My dad even talked to us about sex. He would start off with “I know neither one of us is comfortable with this, but we need to talk about it...” they were both honest about how hard it was to raise me in the early days while stressing that they didn’t have any regrets in having me. They tried to make sure we had the information about birth control and condoms. My mom did talk a little about anatomy. They encouraged us to educate ourselves as well.


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My mom told me to picture her face every time I had sex as a teen. She told me that I’d love it too much because of what happened to me as a child. It didn’t work.

We’ve started talking to our children about sex and menstruation. They are pissed that the boys don’t have to go through it. It could happen any time now which is why I carry some pads in the first aid kit.

Keep the emails going!

Loved the guest! So fun.

I'm relistening to Keith's book... Holy shit. Keith, do you identify as someone who was abused as a child?

Holy shit the lawn fire story. That is the dumbest shit I have ever heard.

Yowza! Was she trying to fuck you up ;)

I think the other day someone mentioned fast-forwarding through the nude drawing scene in Titanic? That was my mom when I was growing up, quite literally. Needless to say no sex talk ever happened. Luckily we had decent sex ed and I grew up with the internet, so by 14 I'd seen it all anyway! But it still made me uncomfortable seeking sex in real life.

Another Great Episode
 

Another great episode, had me in stitches.

It's too soon for Not!Cat to go
She's like a 3rd host at this point

Same. Fighting hard to destigmatize periods.