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Originally Posted by alannanana
It's just easy to be upset with the piercing because it pretty much embodies everything that you two disagree over. It's like a visual reminder of her consistently going against what you want-- and if you're going to constantly see it, you'll constantly be pissed off. That's just not healthy.
But again, I don't know her. Maybe like me, she's wanted her piercing forever. Whatever the reason, be the bigger person and talk to her about it. Get to the bottom of this issue 
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I think it is actually both. She hates where we live and wants to move back home. She has been hanging around with old friends from H.S. that are I guess culturally different from the friends that we have here. She has hung out with this guy that she knows that I would have an issue with (she cheated on me with one of them like 8 years ago), but didn't tell me about it - I found out elsewhere. All that and she is letting our 7 year old daughter spend the night with her sister who has a physically abusive boyfriend.
None of this would be that bad, but she keeps this shit from me, knowing that I have issues trusting her when she is back home from 8 years ago I guess. She's hanging out with this guy she banged but I guess he is happy with a girlfriend and baby or whatever... I don't know - it is all just very, very Jerry Springer.