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I would love to agree with everyone here and say go with your gut but thats not how the world works. First we all have hang up and many are surrouding sex and how we think of people. Getting sex the first date usually throws us into the old whore thought processes. Yes its what I wanted but now you are the girl I wouldn't bring home to mom. Second I am man and I need to chase a bit. Yes its a game and I don't conciously want to play them but I'm built to persue and if I dont have to chase you a bit I lose interest.
If he's pretty and you just want to fulfill a need then go for it, and maybe you'll find someone who will be want something more. If your shooting for a long term relationship than make him chase you and your more likely to go for the distance.
I've been married for 13 years and we had sex about two weeks in so I'm not saying wait forever but my personal hang ups probably would have killed the relationship if it had been any sooner.
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