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Originally Posted by ssgtballard
I would love to agree with everyone here and say go with your gut but thats not how the world works. First we all have hang up and many are surrouding sex and how we think of people. Getting sex the first date usually throws us into the old whore thought processes. Yes its what I wanted but now you are the girl I wouldn't bring home to mom. Second I am man and I need to chase a bit. Yes its a game and I don't conciously want to play them but I'm built to persue and if I dont have to chase you a bit I lose interest.
If he's pretty and you just want to fulfill a need then go for it, and maybe you'll find someone who will be want something more. If your shooting for a long term relationship than make him chase you and your more likely to go for the distance.
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THIS.
I agree that if you really like someone, you should wait. I know it sounds old-fashioned, but
even when the guy is totally into you on the date, often that changes if he gets his rocks off too soon. It's unfair and lame, but in a lot of cases, it just happens that way and the guy can't even help it. I think it's biological or something.
I've learned my lesson before: sex on the first date won't
necessarily kill a relationship, but it
can. And when it does, it's
really, really awful. So, I say, better to be safe than sorry. If you really like someone, watch your alcohol intake, make plans for date 2 before the end of date 1, and try to keep it in your pants for at
least a week, or 3 dates. It's not always easy, but it beats being rejected for fucking someone.
Of course, if you don't want to keep dating the guy, and you don't care what he thinks, go ahead and get yours. Just be safe.
