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Old 12-05-2012, 09:13 AM   #4 (permalink)
Blitzgal
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Originally Posted by dEadERest View Post
picking up my grrl child at Boston Logan today, coming home from four months at the London College of Fashion.
Her teenage years were blistering. I ended up between her and her mother many times and it was years of domestic terror.
But what made her difficult, I knew at the time, were things that would make her a potent adult.
Now, at 20, she and I are wicked tight. She gave me all kindsa props on a phone call to my mother apparently and that was . . wonderful.
My pop passed when I was 17. He was . . difficult. I know that, at the end of his life, he knew I loved and accepted him, that's a mitzvah.
I've gone through life seeking surrogate fathers and mentors.
best wishes to youse blitzen

I went through a similar period of difficulty with my mother, I think because we are similarly bullheaded. But once I got out of my teenage years we are now really close. It's really awesome to be able to count a parent as a friend. Thumbs up!
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