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Originally Posted by memecherry
I've been on dating sites on and off for the last 10 years.
No amount of specificity or demand will repel wrong candidates...
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This is the biggest problem that I have with online dating. The majority of online profiles now are just a list of things you don't want in a potential partner. "Don't contact me if;" is always a horrible thing to have in a profile and just gives the wrong people a list of points they should lie about to get in dem draws.
I've always just tried to share a recent, hopefully humorous, anecdote. That usually gives a person a better idea of how I am rather than just a list of stuff I like. But honestly no one reads a profile anyway. They first look at the pictures and if they deem you fuckable then, perhaps they'll read the profile.
Also curvy was never suppose to mean fat, it was co-opted just like "thick". But between average women with poor body images and and fat women in denial thick has lost all its meaning. Curvy was specifically referring to women with hourglass figures. Which is something very specific and not a point on the line between slim and fat.