Need vagina advice

[GaryStoleXmas]

I understand some of you forum members have them, so ...
I need advice on a vagina.
Started dating a new girl that I really like. Tonight was our second, "night in" alone together and after making out some I asked her if she wanted to take it to the other room.
That's when she shared a little info. She says intercourse is too painful, but we can do other things.
Fine, so off to the bedroom. We get things going, and I experimented a little. 1 or 2 fingers was fine, and she was enjoying it, but as soon as I got a little too deep (almost 2nd knuckle) that experiment would be called to a halt for a little bit.

The next issue I had was the blowjob. Painful. Lots of teeth. I wasn't positioned where I could easily see, but I swear to god it felt like she was doing "spirit fingers" (like from Bring it On) on the shaft.
So that side wasn't working for me either.

I asked her if she had mentioned the problem to the gyno. She says in her experience doctors don't care about those problems.
She's only been with a couple other guys sexually, so not a whole lot of experience either.

So I don't know. Ladies, anything similar? Advice?

I like her a lot, and I'll try to work with her, but it's gonna be tough.



Also is it bad that almost the whole time I had the joke in my head "have you ever played this game called 'just the tip'"?