Snuggly wuggly..AWWWW.. STFU

[Goatboy]

Originally Posted by honeyy

Part of it is biological; women release a hormone that makes them want to cuddle. There are a few more credible articles out there, but Dr. Drew was the first source that came up:

The serotonin surge that males experience after orgasm typically causes a desire for sleep, while females tend to be invigorated due to adrenergic and noradrenergic stimulation. Also women release the hormone oxytocin in response to sexual activity, which tends elicit the need to be close and bond.

Girls are you left unsatisfied? Men? What is with men falling asleep right afterwards while you are ready for another round? How do you wake him up and tell him that you have the ability to orgasm again, and you will take advantage of that?

I slept with a girl who said she was really in love with me, but as soon as we were done, left pretty quickly. She was still out of breath calling the taxi... I found it was me left feeling dejected (and not 'cause I was up for more.)

RNB: It's a shame, since I don't know the remedy and you're seemingly satisfied with being a twatbag, but I think you're setting yourself up for a very lonely middle age. Also, your apparent inability to empaphise with and relate to people, especially coupled with your objectification of women, is extremely worrying. It's the kind of thing that goes on in the minds of sociopaths and psychopaths.

[smallnorth]

Originally Posted by Goatboy

I slept with a girl who said she was really in love with me, but as soon as we were done, left pretty quickly. She was still out of breath calling the taxi... I found it was me left feeling dejected (and not 'cause I was up for more.)

RNB: It's a shame, since I don't know the remedy and you're seemingly satisfied with being a twatbag, but I think you're setting yourself up for a very lonely middle age. Also, your apparent inability to empaphise with and relate to people, especially coupled with your objectification of women, is extremely worrying. It's the kind of thing that goes on in the minds of sociopaths and psychopaths.

Bloody hell! Are you the KATG forum shrink?

(Even though you can't spell)

[paul_r]

Originally Posted by smallnorth

Bloody hell! Are you the KATG forum shrink?

(Even though you can't spell)

there's a vacancy as ooda's too busy with life at the moment.

/just sayin

[Goatboy]

Originally Posted by smallnorth

Bloody hell! Are you the KATG forum shrink?

(Even though you can't spell)

Est. 2005.

I can only apologise for "empaphise", that's ridiculous.

[jwdd27]

Interesting thread.

Although I disagree vehemently with most things RnB posts on these Forums (when I can understand him) I'm slightly leaning towards his way of seeing things here.

I appreciate where Cubby is coming from and in him I see a lot of myself when I was that age (23 or so, right?). The nice guy, always there ready to console the girls that my friends were fucking around with. A romantic, looking for love, searching for my true soul mate. A gentleman.

But... as you get older and have your heart broken a few times, RnB's attitude comes into play a bit more.

Although I wouldn't put it in the same terms he does, or feel as strongly, there is a reluctance to bond on an emotional level the older I get. It's not that I hate women or objectify them, but at this stage in my life I find meaningless sex is safer and better than searching for a "true love" who may turn out to be the worst thing that ever happened to you.

Bitter? Yes, but I'm still a nice guy really.

Oh yeah, before Goatboy puts his fake certificates on the wall, I would like to suggest that sociopath and psychopath are the same thing. If anything, sociopath is obsolete, but people are reluctant to use psychopath because they get it confused with psychosis, and think it means a murderer.

[RyeNOTBourbon]

Originally Posted by RyeNOTBourbon

Guys do you fall for the snuggle trap? Ladies ? What is with having to "snuggle"..Whats recommend time of a snuggle? How do you pull away without the awkward "Okay then"..Are you like me, use your right hand to keep her head against your chest so you can see your watch checking for how long its cuttin into your drinking time?

ORIGINAL QUESTIONs: WHY DO YOU FEEL THE NEED TO SNUGGLE?
WHY DO YOU HAVE TO?
IF I DONT LIKE IT WHY AM I AN ASSHOLE TO PUSH A GIRL OFF ME?

[jesus]

Originally Posted by jwdd27

at this stage in my life I find meaningless sex is safer and better than searching for a "true love"

I'd say the concept of true love only really exists when you're young. Later on in life it's a bit of a fiction.
Meet chick when young, fall in "love", have relationship for a few years. Result? You have a whole length of shared life experiences together that equates to a developed form of "true love". It works.
Meet chick when you're older and you have a more matured concept of love. You can no longer unconditionally allow a person to entangle their personality and life with yours. Result? You can't build up the shared experiences to have that evolved form of love.
I think you're a bit fucked if you expect to experience "true love" with a new person you meet later on in life, perhaps because true love is an immature concept.

Meaningless sex definitely exists on the other hand. It's cool initially but after a while it becoms pretty obvious you're just an animal that needs to fuck every once in a while, because that's what animals are conditioned to do. It's not as much fun after that.

I forget if this post had a point. I think I rambled drunkenly. Note to self: Don't pontificate on love after drinking.

[the big lebowski]

Gonna find my baby, gonna hold her tight
gonna grab some afternoon delight.
My motto's always been; when it's right, it's right.
Why wait until the middle of a cold dark night.
When everything's a little clearer in the light of day.
And you know the night is always gonna be there any way.

Sky rockets in flight. *beeeyuuuu! Afternoon delight. *woooooop! Afternoon delight.

"i love lamp"

[RyeNOTBourbon]

BE LEAVES I dont believe your a guy , you tell me that not all guys are the same so tell me what runs through your mind when a girl turns your head? Are you arguing and are so dead against me because you want to feel better that your really a toucher?

GoatBoy thanks for the therapy im so much better now and yes I am a bit psychopathic. I have enough self esteem and am comfortable enough with myself to be happy "alone" I do not need a wife to feel good about myself.

Cubby why do you equate mastery of language to education I am the first to admit that I am horrible at the written word..I am extremly intelligent just jaded and fed up with BS. I have spent many years in school and have always been top in my class but guess what after going back for 5 years of college ( sorry polytechnical institute) I HAVE NEVER NEEDED TO WRITE AN ESSAY cause it is useless to me.

[RyeNOTBourbon]

Originally Posted by the big lebowski

Gonna find my baby, gonna hold her tight
gonna grab some afternoon delight.
My motto's always been; when it's right, it's right.
Why wait until the middle of a cold dark night.
When everything's a little clearer in the light of day.
And you know the night is always gonna be there any way.

Sky rockets in flight. *beeeyuuuu! Afternoon delight. *woooooop! Afternoon delight.

"i love lamp"

I think I was in love once.
Really? What was her name?
I don't remember.
That's not a good start, but keep going...
She was Brazilian, or Chinese, or something weird. I met her in the bathroom of a K-Mart and we made out for hours. Then we parted ways, never to see each other again.
I'm pretty sure that's not love.