2843: Dating for Dummies w/ Melody Kamali and Deno DeMartino

[porky2468]

Originally Posted by Apia

I guess I ghosted some people. After the first date that was just ok. But we didn't have sex or make out on the first date. It was just ok.
If the guy asked me to go out again and I wasn't into it I said I wasn't into it but I didn't offer this rejection before a guy asked me out again.
I thought in case he wasn't into me either we are fine not talking ever again.
Is this ghosting?

No, that's not ghosting. That's both parties knowing that it's not going further. It's ghosting if he messages you and you completely ignore him (dick move, grow some oves and say you're not into it!! (Not *you*, but the people who do it)).