50: Calendar Boys

[Apia resurrected]

Originally Posted by Newsy

15 years! Until I moved to Pittsburgh I've never lived in one place for longer than 4 years! Military kid here. 5 different elementary schools, 3 different middle schools - kinda messed with your concept of permanence. To me, newness is a part of my DNA, I have to actively work against it!


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Let good old Apia be your therapist for a minute.
My life is full of new stuff in other aspects of my life. I am not a calm, routine loving person. Lots of it is in my work life. Without having a very steady home life I’m pretty sure I couldn’t do it.
You can have a very long relationship and enjoy stability there. I’m very glad to have someone who is a witness to the changes in my life and we definitely evolved together.

[Apia resurrected]

Before this relationship I found lots of excitement in new partners.

Now it’s just somewhere else in my life. It’s not gone.
The good thing about the situation now is that we created a life together and have reached some big financial goals.
By not looking for someone new every year I don’t have to create a new life/Home every year.

It saves a lot of energy and money.
And there is love I guess. ( I’m dangerously close to being too sweet, ugh)