Fuck Buddies

[Draconis]

Ever had one (or more)? How did it go/work out/end? Did it get complicated, or stay simple? What was the arrangement/situation?

I'm curious, and y'all are heathens.

[thepetek]

Originally Posted by Draconis

Ever had one (or more)? How did it go/work out/end? Did it get complicated, or stay simple? What was the arrangement/situation?

I'm curious, and y'all are heathens.

I think I speak for all of us when I say, so did you suggest this arrangement to him, or he to you?

Actually, since you decided to call all of us heathens, I'm pretty sure this is his idea and you're thinking if you're cool with it for now maybe something will...

All I can tell you is that it will end when you start a sentence with "I think I'm starting"

Maybe not right away, but eventually.

That part the movies got right.

Where they get back together? Not so much.

Basically, be careful what pictures end up on the interne...oh right.

Long story short, you know how it felt like college would go on forever, but 4 (or 5) years later it was over and you had good memories but it dawns on you that a whole new chapter in your life is opening up? Sorta like that.

[Junkenstein]

i had sex with people i was friends with, never defined the thing.

and usually things got complicated. not even for feelings or what but because as soon as they had a relationship usually that was a huge thing to deal with.

not saying it had to be, but thats how it always happened.

[lattaland]

Nope, never. To know me is to not wanna fuck me.

[Junkenstein]

you are aware that a good number of gals will now post how that is not true, right?

[Space Indaver]

Originally Posted by Junkenstein

you are aware that a good number of gals will now post how that is not true, right?

He knows.

[marina]

Between 14 and 16 I had a few, never fucked them, turns out boys are really bad at foreplay at that age. Maybe this is null because of my age at the time, but it was fun. It was a nice, no pressure environment to get to know the (sort of) ropes of sex without weird emotional bullshit. It felt safer than a relationship because a relationship requires time, attention, honesty and a someone you actually like and want to spend time with who also feels that way about you, which is difficult.

If I was single, I'd probably do it again. I think that kind of arrangement is nice if you are definitely not looking for a relationship. I stopped because I decided that I wanted a boyfriend. After that the buddy situations basically became repetitive and dull.

[picard102]

The times I have it has usually turned into a relationship.

[lilmissrollergirl]

I've had fuck buddies over the years. Sometimes it worked and sometimes it didn't. You have to know, for sure, in your head and heart that YOU DO NOT want anything more than sex. You have to be able to see that other person out in public, say hello and walk on by (even if it's a close friend). You can't expect them to give you secret looks or flirty texts. You have to be completely detached emotionally. If that's what you want it can be awesome and easy. Just recognize your true feelings. FYSY!

[BellaJane]

About 5 months ago I started seeing a guy- my only real intention at first was fucking but I guess part of me was hoping to find something more. We had sex on the second date, so I didn't really expect it to turn into anything serious. This was the first time I had ever had sex without being in a committed relationship. I figured if it didn't work out, at least I got some fun out of it. The sex was amazing and has since only gotten better. We are still seeing each other and I think I'm falling for him. I'm such a girl haha Luckily, he seems to be falling for me too.