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02-23-2017, 07:17 AM | #71 (permalink) |
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Risk prevention is castrating assholes like you who slutshame rape victims. Go fuck yourself you ignorant fuck. |
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02-23-2017, 08:32 AM | #75 (permalink) |
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Yay! It only took 9 pages worth of posts but we agree! :-) I think I'll teach my daughter much the same thing.
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Both sides had good and bad points and I feel like they agreed on the basics of self-preservation AND teaching people not to rape. Just not on the when to bring up the self-defense part.
Obviously it is always a good time to talk about people not raping. Is there ever a good time to talk self-defense and safety against rape as adults? The subject is so personal that it feels like no matter what it will be volatile. It just feels too dismissive to never talk about precautions. We know:
With that said, is it wrong to discuss making yourself less convenient (even though we know its not fool-proof)? Or is it patronizing? idk. It doesn't seem like the guest was a typical victim-blamer. Just sounds like she was amazed a middle aged person was open to letting a stranger live with her. We can try to rationalize it but in the end it is an odd decision- vetting roommates and tenants is the norm. And we can say that, without implying that she deserved what happened and without relieving the rapist of sole responsibility. [Disclaimer] All this is said as a multiple time survivor, ranging from age 4 to 20. So the randomness, emotion and mental stress of sexual assault is not lost on me. |
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The only time this is wrong is after an assault. "Here's what you could have done to make yourself less convenient," is victim-blaming. But before an assault, not wrong. |
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02-23-2017, 08:58 AM | #78 (permalink) |
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What do we tell little boys & girls so they can prevent a family member or a person of power in their life (clergy, teacher,etc) from assaulting them sexually?
the main thing I felt when it happened to ME was shame, like I did something wrong... Any attitudes towards victims we could change that might make room for victims to not feel like they are to blame? |
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02-23-2017, 09:04 AM | #79 (permalink) | |
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https://www.rainn.org/articles/how-c...sexual-assault To Prevent Sexual Assault, Schools And Parents Start Lessons Early : NPR https://www.theatlantic.com/health/a...garten/360485/ |
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