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Old 03-22-2018, 04:01 PM   #21 (permalink)
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I thought so when I made the post.


You are some of the loveliest people I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. Still didn't stop me from losing one of my nine lives when I heard your letter.


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Old 03-22-2018, 04:43 PM   #22 (permalink)
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Don't let us being prudes have you thinking we're saying you are a bad mother.

Your daughter is 21. If she's old enough to drink, vote, and fight for her country, then why is it a big deal to know that Mommy sucked and fucked strangers in her basement while she was away, sometimes sending texts back home to Mommy to say hi?
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Old 03-23-2018, 11:34 AM   #23 (permalink)
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You would not believe the heated discussion that ensued with the ten people that are currently living in my house/commune after the clip was played for everyone. I had people ready to sign up for the forums to defend my honor. I said, go ahead, you will be ripped apart, but, really, you should already be signed up.

I obviously was okay with you talking about it or I wouldn't have posted. I explained to the house that I was the one that put it out there, but I don't get to decide how you talk about it.

Alicia heard the show before I did and threw me a warning. I had previously told her about what I had posted and it could have been salacious enough to be read on the show. Her words were, you guys were rude and surprisingly closed-minded. I agreed and made my rebuttal post before I got home.

The part that surprised everyone, including me, were the comments afterwards, especially from Chemda. I absolutely could have made the comment about fucking you guys when we met 13 years ago and not remember it. It was in my drinking days. It sucks to still be judged on your behavior from another time in your life and to find out that's what people still think about you when there have been different interactions since.

And there was also an underlying tone of sex shaming, which could be attributed to who the guest was. I'm immune to it and decided a long time ago that no one could make me feel ashamed of my sexuality, unless I allowed them to. I do believe that is how everyone expected me to feel, ashamed.

I used this opportunity to attempt to teach that lesson to the six 20 - 22 year old's that live with us, and actually a few of the adults also. No one can make you feel any way, you get to decide that.

You would have found it quite amazing to have been a fly on the wall when I came home from school and everyone was waiting on me and going to TOWN on you guys (how dare they talk about you like that when you have been such a loyal fan - tattoo, trips, the list went on), and then Alicia and I defended you.

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P.S. I thought Newsy could handle a little ribbing if he was throwing it out.
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Old 03-23-2018, 12:15 PM   #24 (permalink)
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Was it a little ribbing or anger? Because it really feels like anger...

I'm glad she's cool with your post. Like I said, I was raised differently and couldn't imagine my parents saying they were fucking and sucking up and down the house when I was out with a friend. If I said on the show that, at age 43, my dad brought up him having sex with my mom every time we left the house, wouldn't that seem a little weird? Why? We're all adults...

It's a very odd and funny post to the non-poly world. In fact, it's news to me that somehow that post is normal even in a poly world, but okay.

You said that all poly people don't bring up being poly right away. But you did. So now it's me picking on your "drinking days?" How would I know that? And even if I did know that, so what? It's just interesting that you did.

You're saying everyone expected you to feel ashamed. No we didn't. You made up that up. It's a very funny post and will never, to be honest, not be a shocking post for my entire life. So what?

I should be upset that all of a sudden you thought we'd attack you.

In fact, that's what i'm going to do. Be mad.

Now I'm mad.
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Everyone in my house expected me to feel ashamed.

Oh, yea. I was a little butt hurt initially.

Enjoy the anger.

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Old 03-23-2018, 01:22 PM   #26 (permalink)
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That makes sense. Polys are known for being sensitive babies.

Glad we worked it out. You’re loved.
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Thanks.

And in my experience, people talk about what they think makes them interesting.

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Old 03-23-2018, 01:29 PM   #28 (permalink)
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This thread has reminded me of every family reunion I've been to. Minus the accidental drunken discharge of a firearm. Love this place so much.
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Old 03-24-2018, 08:57 PM   #29 (permalink)
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What guy isn't a grower? Someone who's exactly the same size hard or soft, just saggy when they aren't hard?
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Old 03-25-2018, 12:37 AM   #30 (permalink)
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What guy isn't a grower? Someone who's exactly the same size hard or soft, just saggy when they aren't hard?
That what I was wondering.
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