2843: Dating for Dummies w/ Melody Kamali and Deno DeMartino

[Keith]

I do that now just in case. I’ll tell The One that I always knew.

Bad news: My place is covered in ants.

[Mermaid]

How would one go about romancing a man on the first date?

[Keith]

The exact same thing, right?

If I mentioned an inexpensive candy, bring it. No one loses.

[Mermaid]

Makes sense.

[astrokahn]

Originally Posted by Apia

My first date with me Apia was shitty. He was a total introvert and a wasp bite me in my hand. And still.

"Argh me Apia!"
Now you're a pirate couple in my head

[Rufio]

Originally Posted by astrokahn

"Argh me Apia!"
Now you're a pirate couple in my head

The best part is that there's no way that she understands this joke

[porky2468]

Originally Posted by Keith

Venues are always more work than they need to be in NYC, and so we decided Why aren't we just doing it in other cities as well?

London, hint hint.

[porky2468]

Originally Posted by Apia

I guess I ghosted some people. After the first date that was just ok. But we didn't have sex or make out on the first date. It was just ok.
If the guy asked me to go out again and I wasn't into it I said I wasn't into it but I didn't offer this rejection before a guy asked me out again.
I thought in case he wasn't into me either we are fine not talking ever again.
Is this ghosting?

No, that's not ghosting. That's both parties knowing that it's not going further. It's ghosting if he messages you and you completely ignore him (dick move, grow some oves and say you're not into it!! (Not *you*, but the people who do it)).

[Keith]

You can’t ghost accidentally.

[porky2468]

I should really wait until the end of the episode to make all my comments...

Re: sneak sex / rape in movies - I really liked 40 Days and 40 Nights but always felt so sick at the end when the "hot" ex girlfriend fucks him while he's passed out and handcuffed to the bed. And then his new gf gets pissed off at him? Huh?! How was that ok???