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Old 09-05-2018, 08:00 PM   #1 (permalink)
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2934: Amor, Risas, y Pablo Escobar w/ Luisa Díez

Comedy in different cities; working for Pablo Escobar; having 3 husbands, all dead; IDing bodies for the 9/11 Museum; dating strategies and negotiating boundaries

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Old 09-06-2018, 01:18 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I understand that life was tough for her with all the body parts in the backyard but I prefere a 23 year old today who has no motivation to a very motivated young drug lord.( less murder= generally better)

And also great for her for not wanting a family but it seems not to be helping with her non stoping angst.
And she said people back than had no anxiety. So why does she? I believe people always had anxiety but didnt talk about it. There isn't just 9/11. Trauma and abuse in private life isnt new.

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Can’t be more clear than that.

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GGG thats something created by Dan Savage again. He says " game for everything WITHIN REASON...! " like no kid fucking. And for Dan, no shitting in his mouth.
Please have him on the show on day!
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Holy shit what an episode. Luisa has some mad confidence.

I really enjoyed the conversation about sex and it's been real cool listening to this sex-ploration that's been happening on the podcast lately. I also realized that Keith and Chemda aren't as sex-positive or maybe as knowledgable as I'd thought. I started learning about kink and stuff like that pretty early on in my sex life and I guess I forgot that there are people who haven't done stuff that isn't vanilla.

I learned about GGG from Dan Savage as well, I learned about a lot of stuff from him. Don't always agree with him, but usually do. To me "Game" means "I'm game to try things that you're interested in and that respect my own boundaries". I'm GGG myself so I've gotten to try lots of cool stuff I might not have discovered otherwise. GGG does not mean "I'm a freak in bed, I fuck like crazy and I will be the best fuck you've ever had, do anything to me." It means "I want us to have great sex, I'm willing to work for it, and I'm willing to explore new things."
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I agree with Luisa that "sex people" are better at talking about boundaries and consent. On this episode Chemda said that she wants to learn more about this world, which I think means that she's going to become a sex person too. Chemda is already kinky and open-minded, I think she's going to have a great time in this world once she gets a bit more comfortable.

So many of the guests are sex people, but they get treated like freaks on the show. Kevin Allison, Billy Procida, even Andrea and Emily, anyone who's been to a sex club or party, or tried to be non-monogamous (Myq Kaplan). I hear these people talking about consent, communication, trying new things - exciting things! - and getting judged negatively. As if there's something wrong with enjoying crazy weird sex stuff.

Also, I'm a sex person so obviously when I hear Keith call someone a "fun girl" with judgement in his tone I feel it personally. Doesn't mean judgement isn't happening.
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For anyone who wants to hear more about Luisa's upbringing and that episode she mentioned with Ari Shaffir, it was a couple years ago

Skeptic Tank episode # 264 Narcos
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100% Agree with Luisa

I 100% agree with what Luisa was saying about young people today having all the benefits of a safe society with plenty of opportunities but then not realising it.

Here in Britain we attract people from around the world to seek a better, safer life but our young people are struggling. Children of immigrants strive for a better life, I work with young people and their is a big discrepancy between worth ethic and expectations.

Parents are partially to blame because we have parents of adult children ringing up to complain about how their child is treated. The parent often turns a blind eye to laziness, chronic weed smoking, and generally obnoxious behaviour.

Cool parents defending delinquent behaviour is ruining the kids lives.
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I 100% agree with what Luisa was saying about young people today having all the benefits of a safe society with plenty of opportunities but then not realising it.

Here in Britain we attract people from around the world to seek a better, safer life but our young people are struggling. Children of immigrants strive for a better life, I work with young people and their is a big discrepancy between worth ethic and expectations.

Parents are partially to blame because we have parents of adult children ringing up to complain about how their child is treated. The parent often turns a blind eye to laziness, chronic weed smoking, and generally obnoxious behaviour.

Cool parents defending delinquent behaviour is ruining the kids lives.

The younger generation is always considered to be awful. It was the same with us.
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