676: Blow Me

[phooey]

I just had a chance to listen to the show.. and those instructions for the BJ are bullshit..

I have some advice... "don't stop to ask questions more than once,, you know like.. is that ok? tell me if it hurts" That's enough.. then just practice all you want.

all those questions... jeez if someone really takes that advice, you would go nuts!

[armenta]

Originally Posted by phooey

I just had a chance to listen to the show.. and those instructions for the BJ are bullshit..

I have some advice... "don't stop to ask questions more than once,, you know like.. is that ok? tell me if it hurts" That's enough.. then just practice all you want.

all those questions... jeez if someone really takes that advice, you would go nuts!

I concur!
This is kind of embarrassing, but here goes.
I always thought of myself as a fairly accomplished diddler of the ladies. I have had more than enough practice. Well I get to my current girlfriend and all of the sudden I suck. I truly believe her "area" isn't fixed and it moves all over the place. It got to the point where she kept moving my hand, getting frustrated and basically not enjoying herself whenever I tried to warm her up that way. So I said I give up and did for more than a couple months. Don't worry I used my mouth instead and that was more than fine by her.
Lately I have tried at it again and am achieving much better results, with no help and hand moving, which only makes me feel like a little boy putz.
So the moral of the story is, communication is good to a point in this "area" sometimes it just "is" or "isn't". I think talking doesn't work for everybody when it comes to sex. I think some things are better left unsaid.

[iheartnihilism]

Originally Posted by Grampoo

Yeah. I'm with you. I think there's ways to be aggressive and even degrading and have it feel sincere and good. But the spitting and yes, the gagging stuff always seems yucky to me. But like GirlNextDoor says, "to each their own"... I'm just speaking up for not emulating everything you see, just cause it's in a porno.

Where the fuck is that video of the drunk girl who gets skullfucked that they talked about on one of the earlier shows? It's impossible to find when you google search 'blow job' or 'skull fuck'. Sigh.

my thoughts on the show:
Exercise is fucking amazing for depression. I think it has to do with all the endorphins or blood pumping or whatever. I know Dr. Drew says things that "flush out toxins" is bullshit terminology, and i believe anything that silver fox tells me, but that's the only thing that comes to mind on describing it.

Blowjobs: Experimenting with liquids at different temps. is interesting. I really enjoy giving head. /shrug
And I give no fucks about making out with someone after they've gone down on me but then again I've tasted pussy other than my own. I see it like, it's not piss or shit, it's just my 'body juice' and it's not dirty. But I wouldnt make a guy kiss me after if he didn't want to.

Oh, and the whole yelling in the pussy thing? i thought he meant like.. to check for an echo. it didn't even occur to me that is was a sexual thing because as good as the vibrations might feel, i think having someone screaming during would be a bit..distracting.