698: Deconstructing McNally

[tokeyflo]

Dina is simply the wisest. McNally is a wierdo. But ah well.

[CandleGirl]

Jorjo... I know, I know! I'm the first to dish out advice to my friends about doing what makes THEM happy, but I'll be the last to take that same advice.

I've been unhappy in this relationship for a while now, and I guess I've just been hoping it would get better. Before I knew it, it had been months since we had sex, or even slept in the same bed. He always falls asleep watching TV and doesn't bother to come to bed. It's been like we've been living as roommates who hang out and go out to dinner together once in a while. We get a long great as friends, but when it comes to relationship stuff, we're just not compatible.

So the other day he wanted to have sex (remember, it's been months). I didn't really want to, but I changed my mind just because I wanted to know if I would get into it or enjoy it at all. The answer to that question ended up being NO. It was hard for me to even look at him. THAT is when I made my mind up that it was over.

[iheartnihilism]

My 2 cents for ffc: You were too young to buy a house with someone.

I've got the same problem the dude who wrote in to Dina has. Been living in a 2 family house that didn't have the downstairs rented and for almost a year, noise was not an issue. Now we have neighbors and I conveniently acquired a fantastic boyfriend at the same time. Now the landlord (with whom we have a month to month 'lease') is threatening to kick us out because these people are complaining about the noise.
It's my fucking constitutional right to have good sex goddammit!

[phooey]

I like McNally he is Okie Dokie....

[anil]

Originally Posted by firefighter_chick

so.. I attempted to break up with the bf. I told myself I was going to do it, no matter what. So I went home, and told him I was leaving for a few days to think about things. Well, he started bawling. he offered to quit the fire department, his job, go on meds, anything to try to make it work out. the big sucker that I am couldnt leave with him like that, so I stayed. Hes been awesome the last couple of days, but I know things will go back to normal very quickly, and then it will be that much easier to leave for real, because at least it wont be that much of a shock to him. This process sucks.

Things might get back to normal, but at least know he knows that you didn't like things the way they were, maybe that will change things.

Make sure Viagra is one of the meds tho... and tell him about Google, maybe he can use it to look up some new moves

cheers!

[firefighter_chick]

we do have the house and the mortgage in both of our names. a silly move looking back on it. When I do leave, I think I would just sign the house over to him, and take my shit and forget about it. I would lose some, but it would save on hassle.
and about the Viagra, we have talked about that, but he has no prob getting up, its just the lack of sex drive. or in his head "I just work too much and im too tired". bew. so I dont think that would help. and going too quick... thats a prob too. dont know if viagra would help that... hmm... onto google.

[ChrisUK]

I am kinda with McNally on this one .. Chemda IS annoying.

Before you abuse .. let me explain.

I sit listening to KATG on my iPod during a terminally dull train ride to work. Because I am too much of a cheapass to buy decent headphones that noise cancel I use the basic iPod ones.

Now, in the UK we have what are called 'quiet carriages' ...long story short if you annoy people, especially during rush hour, with the noise of your music etc all hell breaks loose.

So there I am listening to KATG .. Keith and even Brolo are chatting away and I have the sound set just so I can hear it and not annoy .. then WHAM!!! Chemda either screams or laughs so loud that blood pops out of my ears and the other passengers start limbering up their batting arms.

Love the lady and find her very funny but I think prolonged exposure is probably bad for your health .. especially for us 'quiet folk'

[andsoitgoes]

Originally Posted by april

Me too, he is A-OK in my books.

Don't tell Rellz!!!

Let's hope he doesn't read the forums!

*shiftyeyeglances*

[anil]

Originally Posted by ChrisUK

I am kinda with McNally on this one .. Chemda IS annoying.

Before you abuse .. let me explain.

I sit listening to KATG on my iPod during a terminally dull train ride to work. Because I am too much of a cheapass to buy decent headphones that noise cancel I use the basic iPod ones.

Now, in the UK we have what are called 'quiet carriages' ...long story short if you annoy people, especially during rush hour, with the noise of your music etc all hell breaks loose.

So there I am listening to KATG .. Keith and even Brolo are chatting away and I have the sound set just so I can hear it and not annoy .. then WHAM!!! Chemda either screams or laughs so loud that blood pops out of my ears and the other passengers start limbering up their batting arms.

Love the lady and find her very funny but I think prolonged exposure is probably bad for your health .. especially for us 'quiet folk'

I think annoying is a bit much when talking about Chemda... the variances in the voices (McNallys deep voice, Keiths kind of quiet sometimes loud voice, Chemdas excited and Brolos rockn out voice ) all have a huge shift in pitch and tone etc.

Personally, I like Chemda's bubbly nature it really just makes my day brighter sometimes.

And if you're really annoyed at Chemda's voice, how are you not at Brolo's??

[DrMitch]

Originally Posted by andsoitgoes

What about the wolverine, huh?



meh -if it comes to it, maybe just marry Chemda. That wasy on paper you can just fudge the "cN" part and then Chemda's parents will finally see that her and "Keith" are married.

Bonus prize? You get to stay in the states. They may require video of you copulating with the hostess, however - Are you willing, McNally? Do you have the stones?

If he were a REAL man, he would surgically graft those blades to his skeleton