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View Poll Results: Top or Bottom?
Male-Top "Speak only when spoken to, slave!" 41 37.96%
Male-Bottom "Make me your bitch...please" 34 31.48%
Female-Top "My pussy is your chore" 7 6.48%
Female-Bottom "My holes are here to serve" 26 24.07%
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Old 06-29-2010, 07:57 AM   #11 (permalink)
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I think my favorite part about being submissive is getting tied up. I absolutely love bondage.

The reason my boyfriend is uncomfortable being extremely dominant is because he really thinks he will end up hurting me and my feelings.
SAFETY WORD... use them!

The safety word can be "Brumski" even.
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Old 06-29-2010, 08:23 AM   #12 (permalink)
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I think my favorite part about being submissive is getting tied up. I absolutely love bondage.

The reason my boyfriend is uncomfortable being extremely dominant is because he really thinks he will end up hurting me and my feelings.
Part of being a dom is knowing the sub well enough that there's no risk they will end up doing it in a messy way. Safety Words are there too, but the best thing is being into each other enough and knowing each other welll enough that you know your partner turnons, turnoffs and limits.

Also, if someone isnt into being a dom, they'll never kearn, it's just not for them.

I like bondage too, personally, but the one time i did it with the wrong person that wasnt into it and just forced herself in it, it was uncomfortable and awkward.

Talk about it a lot, baby step through it and if it just doesnt go, find something else. Patience, practice and chemistry.
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Old 06-29-2010, 11:50 AM   #13 (permalink)
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The other option is pay/find a professional. 90% of them have a strict no sex rule, and you can inform them of your boundaries/specific interests.

Ever since I discovered my sub side (90% of the time, I'm a Dom) I have developed a fantasy that a femdom comes over and my gf and I will be subs together. Were a monogamous couple and I think this would technically still fit within our boundaries and maybe also educate us on some new techniques of domination.

Problem is the ones worth having are not affordable and we have never socialized or networked amongst the kink community in Chicago.
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Old 06-29-2010, 01:06 PM   #14 (permalink)
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I enjoy being both, but i admit that being a bottom is funnier for me.
huh?
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Old 06-29-2010, 01:45 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Funnier as in gives me more of a good time?

What?
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Old 06-29-2010, 02:36 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Speaking of funny (and I know what you meant junkenstien) it reminds me of that moment during Dom/Sub play; when the sub laughs for some reason especially if it's an accidental break of character, it's the perfect/exhilarating moment for a Dom to make an example of his/her authority. That is easily one of my favorite moments during Dom-sub play.

First one to laugh gets the nipple clamps, LOL
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Old 06-29-2010, 04:33 PM   #17 (permalink)
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I always like the female to start out as a top, just so I can take the control away from her. The exchange of power is the hottest part.
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Problem is the ones worth having are not affordable and we have never socialized or networked amongst the kink community in Chicago.
Get on Fetlife and look around for the smaller parties in your area.
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Old 06-30-2010, 01:51 AM   #19 (permalink)
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My school has a BDSM club, they are cool, I'm just too shy to go. Plus I feel creepy cause my fat. I'm a hardcore sub...I want some nasty things done to me*cough* pegging *cough*.
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My school has a BDSM club

College right?
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