How do you count orgasms?

[John Galt]

Originally Posted by DaHonay

I can have one... maybe 2 per session. I think I'm more like a man that way. I need time to recuperate. I don't cum easy, but I cum hard.

I've been with more people like this than not. It took some learning on my part to realize that after my partner had one of those powerful orgasms, I would actually do a lot better to back off and cuddle, even if I hadn't finished myself yet. The reciprocation is always a win, even if it takes a little while to get there.

[Rhian]

I edited my original post - yes I usually get earthshattering, but I have changed, sometimes I get more horny, more hungry, more needing more inside. More sleep. No predicting.

[benjita]

Usually when I'm with a girl, I lose count if you go by the textbook definitions. I'm acutely aware of my own shortcomings, and I actually derive more pleasure from getting the girl off, feeling her inside and out, and giving all I can to the experience, than I do with my little few minutes then I'm out of commission for a half hour orgasm.

I dunno, maybe it's the nerd mentality of I'm lucky enough to get a girl, might as well let her enjoy it as much as possible.

[the1thepwnly]

Originally Posted by benjita

I dunno, maybe it's the nerd mentality of I'm lucky enough to get a girl, might as well let her enjoy it as much as possible.

exactly this

[Draconis]

I'm good for one orgasm, usually. Two if I work realllllly, really hard at it, but the one usually takes about as long as my attention span can last for.

They're.. hard to describe. For me it's a tension snap that lasts about 5-10 seconds, is really intense and has little aftershocks where I'll spasm up. Maybe that's the waves you're talking about? I'm usually too sensitive afterwards to try for another.

Does anyone else have the same experience after orgasm that immediately afterwards, they're totally, completely uninterested in sex? That happens to me almost every time. I cum, and I'm done with the thing.

[campy]

Originally Posted by Draconis

Does anyone else have the same experience after orgasm that immediately afterwards, they're totally, completely uninterested in sex? That happens to me almost every time. I cum, and I'm done with the thing.

Yup, absolutely...I'm off facebooking 10 seconds after...screw cuddle time

[TeddyPicker]

I always climax at least twice before I can orgasm, which is both annoying and titillatingly fun.
A deep orgasm for me lasts about 15-20 seconds, but I've been to known to have 2 or 3 short ones, 10 seconds where my brain just goes a bit fuzzy and everything seems to contract. I tend to enjoy those ones more, but the long ones are really satisfying.

And then loads of cuddle time, cause I'm super ghey like that....

[TeddyPicker]

Oh, and question to add to this thread:

Noises?
When are you loudest? Are you loud at all?
Or is all this Meg Ryan pretext bullshit?

I have to psyche myself up making lots of lovely sex sounds but when I actually orgasm I'm pretty quiet.

[marina]

Mine's like a roller coaster.

[Lanfear]

Originally Posted by TeddyPicker

Oh, and question to add to this thread:

Noises?
When are you loudest? Are you loud at all?
Or is all this Meg Ryan pretext bullshit?

I have to psyche myself up making lots of lovely sex sounds but when I actually orgasm I'm pretty quiet.

I got complaints for being too quiet .... sigh