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Are you the girl whose boyfriend "didn't know the roads" when you tried to visit him? |
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Yep that's me! Anyway, we worked out the summer, he drove to visit me a few times when he was in nearby Pennsylvania, and I flew down to North Carolina to visit him once. The summer was extremely hard for me in regards to our relationship, but back at school we've been growing so much closer again and things are better than ever. He makes me happy like no one else. I'm pretty sure I basically love him, and right now I'm really struggling with the fact that he doesn't love me back yet. I know it's probably a silly problem to those of you with much more life experience than me, but right now it's what my silly 19-year-old brain is dealing with.
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He's a dummy and you loving him won't make him less of a dummy. Move along, it's best for both of you. |
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Can't account so much for the wisdom in my actions: I a) love, but 2) won't not sleep with other people. What seems to be working are tons of communication and bald-faced honesty. and skype dates. making time for skype dates. facial communication is important blah blah science, also cumming. I don't know if it's a good idea. I don't know if it's gonna work out. But, he's making magic happen in my inside places and I think that's worth a little risk and exploration. |
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For the record, I'm 19 too. |
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I also wish it was easy to write him off as a dummy and dump his sorry ass, but I just can't make myself do it. Like I said, he makes me happy when we're together, and I know I make him happy too. I don't know what else he's missing. |
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I feel inclined to ask how long you've been single for a stretch since you've started dating at all. And also what his longest relationship to date has been. Those two things could be at the root of your problem. If he has commitment issues and/or if you have co-dependency issues. If that doesn't apply, then I agree with Bankyanks. Talk to the dude and make him communicate why he won't sack up. For everyone else starting, continuing or debating LDRs: keep your chin up. It is possible for it to work out. I was in a LDR a bit over two years ago. I had had one that didn't work out a few years before that, so I was hesitant to start a new one. Especially given that she was in California and I was in New England. But, 2 months after we started, I flew out to Cali and drove across the country with her. Granted, it was a gamble for both of us being that early. But we had known each other, from that distance, for over a year by then. Two months ago we got married. It doesn't work for everyone, obviously. I just hope for the best for those of you dealing with it. <3 |
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I'm pretty sure that it was about 6 months into mine and Dr. BFs relationship where I told him straight out "I don't believe in love, if you can't handle that, this isn't for you, but I like you a lot and I think you're really awesome, so I hope you stick around." Of course, I've modified my opinions regarding love, but not by much. Even though I love him deeply, I still believe that's just a series of chemical reactions designed by evolution to ensure offspring are well cared for. I know love isn't the most important part of a relationship.
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