Long-distance relationships

[blackpussy]

Originally Posted by marina

I don't know why everyone's freaking out about the love thing. If you have fun with him, have fun. You're 19, don't worry about the stupidity of looove.

I'm pretty sure that it was about 6 months into mine and Dr. BFs relationship where I told him straight out "I don't believe in love, if you can't handle that, this isn't for you, but I like you a lot and I think you're really awesome, so I hope you stick around."

Of course, I've modified my opinions regarding love, but not by much. Even though I love him deeply, I still believe that's just a series of chemical reactions designed by evolution to ensure offspring are well cared for. I know love isn't the most important part of a relationship.

Agreed! (Marina is wise) Just lay out your expectations with your BF/GF. Tell them what you expect from them and what they can expect from you. Me and my hubby laid it out to each other early on and we both knew the consequences if we broke that trust. Stick to your guns and don't let anyone walk all over you. Have respect for each other and things will work out, or don't and they won't, you decide.

**edited to say: My advice would also be to not limit yourself any opportunities that may come your way because you're waiting on someone else. If he/she is not committed, why should you be?

[Bucho]

Originally Posted by Junkenstein

Depnds on the people and if you belive in it.

I would do anything for mine and i will. from traveling through the ocean to moving. i am so deep in it i dont feel like distance is an obstacle. annoying maybe, but not an issue.

I never have felt this way, i am guarded and careful and skeptical. buty this is so intense, true, real and powerful to me that i pretty much face anything for her. i havent ever felt so sure of something in ages. it just came to me as a revelation. i knew it.

So i know i wanna make it work and she does. so it will work. i casnt see it any other way.

This is totally music to my ears me old cobber. Tooooooooootally.

Rock on.

[Medium Brumski]

I feel like I'm missing something. Junk, does the KATG community know what LDR you're talking about?

[Lanfear]

Originally Posted by Medium Brumski

I feel like I'm missing something. Junk, does the KATG community know what LDR you're talking about?

Yes

[Medium Brumski]

Originally Posted by Lanfear

Yes

lol, I guess that's fair, you answered my actual question.

[doug]

Originally Posted by Medium Brumski

lol, I guess that's fair, you answered my actual question.

Junk and Metal Martha Stewart are in some kind of barf inducing cutesy thing.

[Medium Brumski]

Originally Posted by doug

Junk and Metal Martha Stewart are in some kind of barf inducing cutesy thing.

Cool, good for them.

Has this been going on for awhile? Junk seems to be spewing some pretty strong feelings all over this thread.

[doug]

Originally Posted by Medium Brumski

Cool, good for them.

Has this been going on for awhile? Junk seems to be spewing some pretty strong feelings all over this thread.

Not sure, but I don't think Junk knows how to feel anything other than strongly.

[Cretaceous Bob]

Originally Posted by doug

Not sure, but I don't think Junk knows how to feel anything other than grossly.

This thread is not very metal.

[Junkenstein]

Originally Posted by doug

Not sure, but I don't think Junk knows how to feel anything other than strongly.

nicely put sir.

and yes it has being goin on for a bit. i always had some feelings for her since we first talked, but id say it developed a lot in between the early days of the hottest contest.

Oooh bad move. now if i was wrong my ass is on a plate.

PS: Bob, we still can talk about porn. you know i like you.