Need vagina advice

[GaryStoleXmas]

Thanks for the advice ladies.

Marina - It's cool to have this forum where a lot of people like yourself are willing to be so open. Were it not for KATG and the forums I probably wouldn't have acted adult enough to talk to her about the few things I did. Now I just need to talk a little more next time and try some different things.

Lanfear - I thought maybe that might be a possibility at first, but after thinking it through. I don't think that's it.

[da_ticklah]

I think the advice so far is legit she's nervous about sex or has a medical condition, how old are you guys? If she's <17 she's lying about the Dr's not caring about pain, she may not have a way to get to the gyno w/o parental knowledge and is scared to have her folks know it hurts when she tries to have sex or masturbate with insertion. If she's over 18 demand she go to a doctor and have her watch a porno and learn how to suck a dick w/o teeth and spirit finger WTF!!.

Unless both of you are overly religious why would you have a girlfriend to only go home and jerk off, you can do that yourself for free. Wouldn't you rather buy an XBOX and games or a new ipod or whatever the fuck instead of feeding/entertaining a potentially selfish girl

[Sparrow]

Question: Are She & her Vagina worth the hassle? Unless you really give a shit about this girl already, do you want to take on special hooha needs?

[BrownEyedBtch]

As far as the vaginal hangups, it's likely fear of the unknown - how it feels, how much it will hurt, etc. If you want to be the one to talk her through it, then the caring could help her loosen up. Otherwise, and probably in addition to, she needs to get to a gyno, preferably a female one.

The blowjob problem comes from lack of experience. She should watch a couple of porns to study technique. Otherwise she may never understand the difference between a good one and a bad one.

Good luck to you.

[KrisMeliss]

I had a problem similar to this at one point, and I can definitely relate to the "doctor not giving a shit" perspective. I went through about three doctors before I found one that was really gung-ho about solving the problem. Tell her to find a woman gyno if she hasn't already; sometimes it's easier for gals to be forthcoming when talking about their vaginas with a woman than with a man.

A lot of things can cause intercourse to be painful for a woman (stress, ovarian cysts, past sexual abuse/trama, depression, just to name a few). IF this is a relationship you're invested in and plan to stick with for a while, it's definitely important that you encourage her to continue to seek help till she finds a doctor willing to take her seriously. If she seems overly resistant to seeking help, it could just be her way of shutting down sex, not a physical problem.

As for the bad blow job, that's likely just poor skills, especially if she has sex hang-ups from the painful vagina issue. Be direct and verbalize what you want instead.

Good luck man, no one deserves bad head and pussy lockdown!

[marina]

I'm surprised by some of the people saying to dump this chick and her broken snatch. I think that should only apply if all he's looking for is sex, but it sounds like she's a cool chick. Easily fuck-able vagina is a dime a dozen, but cool people are not.

If a person can't deal with somebody who's not immediately into the hop-on-top, is their head going to explode when she puts the toilet paper on the wrong way, or has other, annoying quirks that, rather than being a single hurdle to get over, happen every single day, day in and day out?

I think this is an opportunity to bone up on some of the other ways to make a girl cum that don't involve penetration. Also, a way to explore things that turn him on beyond the in-and-out, and expand his sexual repertoire. Even if it doesn't work out, Gary could probably come away from it with a myriad of new skills.

Originally Posted by GaryStoleXmas

Thanks for the advice ladies.

Marina - It's cool to have this forum where a lot of people like yourself are willing to be so open. Were it not for KATG and the forums I probably wouldn't have acted adult enough to talk to her about the few things I did. Now I just need to talk a little more next time and try some different things.

Thanks. The only reason I'm able to talk about stuff like that is because other people in my life made it okay by doing the same thing. Plus, sex is better when you communicate, and anything that makes sex better is awesome.

Originally Posted by HuggieBear

uggh

I know! It sucked. Thank god it shrank of it's own accord rather than popping or needing surgery.

[da_ticklah]

Originally Posted by marina

I'm surprised by some of the people saying to dump this chick and her broken snatch. I think that should only apply if all he's looking for is sex, but it sounds like she's a cool chick. Easily fuck-able vagina is a dime a dozen, but cool people are not.

depends on age from 16 - 25 all the average dude wants to do is bang as many chicks as possible, so in that thought leaving mat be an option for him.

[shantastic]

Originally Posted by marina

I'm surprised by some of the people saying to dump this chick and her broken snatch. I think that should only apply if all he's looking for is sex, but it sounds like she's a cool chick. Easily fuck-able vagina is a dime a dozen, but cool people are not.

i just think unless he's already really emotionally invested in this girl, it might not be worth it to play vagina tetris and get your dick chomped on.

[marina]

Originally Posted by shantastic

i just think unless he's already really emotionally invested in this girl, it might not be worth it to play vagina tetris and get your dick chomped on.

I guess. It's not like at least one of those things can't be easily changed. I think the vagina thing can be looked at like a bummer, or a challenge. It's the restrictions in games that makes them fun, or else everybody would get a field goal and we'd all go home.

[Cretaceous Bob]

Originally Posted by shantastic

i just think unless he's already really emotionally invested in this girl, it might not be worth it to play vagina tetris and get your dick chomped on.

You are a poet.