O doctorsleep, where art thou?

[Sapgreenpeppers]

Fat Neckbeard Face would be an awesome band name.

[doctorsleep]

Originally Posted by Jo_Culprit

Same old bullshit



Dude fuck you, I'm pretty I already explained why this chick is getting duped by those fatsos along with all your other shit.

- Nice is not a personality
- A girl isn't going to want to date someone that has exposed tremendous amounts of weakness to her because it emasculates the dude in her eyes.
- A girl will never want to date someone who is a ball of rage wondering why no one will date them.

Everytime I tell you what you can do to help yourself, you make a dumb lazy counterpoint and use it as an excuse to do NOTHING

Pick your balls up off the mantle and stop fucken bleeding weakness to everyone. Do you really think you can make any positive progress if you hold onto your weak bitch self image?

Do you think we get more than one chance at life? do you think your gonna get a re-do somewhere along the line? Line is too fucken short to waste time being a weak bitch, be nothing but as the person you want to be. You're gonna fucken grow old and die someday and then thats it, who gives a shit about your past and your ego bullshit it won't matter in the end. All you do is hold yourself back. Go fucken take a bunch of psychadelics.

I have gotten better, I've opened up more and come out of my shell. God damn i wish I could get a redo, put this knowledge in 17 year old me and i would be set.

I talked to that girl again, the one that gave me her number, shes so smiley and happy and nice I can't wait until after the semester when I can focus on work and moving out and trying to date this girl.

I'm not going to lie though, I hate the fact that I'm so fucked in the head that this girl that I BARELY KNOW, that I'm not even 100% on her last name, this girl that I have had 3 conversations with, is unknowingly holding my destiny in her hands.

I feel like this girl will either be the girl who is going to give me my first lay, or the last girl I'll ever talk too.

I hate that I care that much about her, I know I shouldn't, but I'm so paranoid about fucking this up, It really feels like this is my last chance, its the furthest i have ever gotten I HAVE TO DO THIS

[Sparrow]

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

I'm not going to lie though, I hate the fact that I'm so fucked in the head that this girl that I BARELY KNOW, that I'm not even 100% on her last name, this girl that I have had 3 conversations with, is unknowingly holding my destiny in her hands.

your destiny is only ever in your hands. projecting it onto women you barely know is the reason you will end up physically harming someone. you are a danger to others. please seek help.

or off yourself. in which case, katg.com/chat

[EatTheWeak]

Quit making other people responsible for your happiness, sleep. How have you not grasped the overarching theme of every single piece of advice you've received? You're demanding validation from other people when you and you alone are the only one who can provide that for yourself.

Just please don't murder this poor girl when she doesn't fill your void for you, okay? She's powerless to do that and I don't want you to be what gets KATG on the news.

[Cretaceous Bob]

Doesn't know her name, barely knows anything about her, has barely talked to her, but desperately wants to be "allowed" to "love" her and is obsessed with it.

She's just a vagina to him, what he thinks of as "love" means "have weird stalker sex", and "allowed" means "isn't told no".

And he's getting real tired of being told no.

[EatTheWeak]

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

I feel like this girl will either be the girl who is going to give me my first lay, or the last girl I'll ever talk too.

Jesus, what a psycho. Do we know where sleep goes to school? I'm beginning to feel like we need to issue some kind of warning to this woman in his crosshairs.

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

I hate that I care that much about her, I know I shouldn't,

Well, not to worry - what you're feeling is not "caring" but "unhealthy fixation." You have to acknowledge that she's a human being with her own thoughts, feelings and desires, plus get to know anything about her aside from that she was polite to you once before you can really begin to care about her as an actual human person.

All you "care" about right now is getting your rocks off and trying to force her to validate you since you're unwilling to do the hard work involved with validating yourself.

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

I HAVE TO DO THIS

No - you really, really don't. What you HAVE TO DO is get yourself in good working order and develop something resembling emotional maturity. She cannot fix you; it's monstrously unfair of you to expect her to.

[EatTheWeak]

No, probably not. Just didn't want sleep to think that the forums were behind him in stalking this hapless woman. I'd hate to feel like an accomplice.

[doctorsleep]

I just said that thats how it FEELS sometimes. I had a long talk with a friend of mine and I got over those thoughts. Don't worry Im not stalking her or anything,

But, its just that I have never gotten this far with a girl (and believe me I know that this isn't far at all, this is barley even starting)

So all these feelings are new and confusing too me, A girl actually wants to go out with me, actually wants to sit next to me, hell...she actually wants to TALK too me.

I don't feel this often so it can be overwhelming.

[DWarrior]

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

I just said that thats how it FEELS sometimes. I had a long talk with a friend of mine and I got over those thoughts. Don't worry Im not stalking her or anything,

But, its just that I have never gotten this far with a girl (and believe me I know that this isn't far at all, this is barley even starting)

So all these feelings are new and confusing too me, A girl actually wants to go out with me, actually wants to sit next to me, hell...she actually wants to TALK too me.

I don't feel this often so it can be overwhelming.

g, didn't a girl make out with you? Plus your dike friends sit next to you all the time. Chillax breh.

[doctorsleep]

Originally Posted by DWarrior

g, didn't a girl make out with you? Plus your dike friends sit next to you all the time. Chillax breh.

No, i THOUGHT i was going to get a chance to because this girl was getting all close on me, but I found out she has a boyfriend and just likes to flirt with guys because most women are shitty humans who can do whatever they want without consequence.