people who are NOT dr sleep post your dating questions here.

[dangerous]

ok the dr sleep thread has gotten silly. no matter how many times dr sleep was told the first golden rule that no one can love you till you love yourself he refused to accept it. but there are those of you out there who are willing to work on yourselves and want help and advice on dating and are fed up wadding through the dr sleep thread for the nuggets of good advice so i am starting a new thread to help non douchbags get laid. so if your willing to work on your self esteem, if no one else can help and if you can find this thread, maybe you can hire the love team.

[evadwolrab]

Jews are sapping my money away faster than those fucks with two X chromosomes can. Knowing my luck, the only action I'll get is if I get raped by a pack o' niggers.

Please advise.

[dangerous]

Originally Posted by evadwolrab

Jews are sapping my money away faster than those fucks with two X chromosomes can. Knowing my luck, the only action I'll get is if I get raped by a pack o' niggers.

Please advise.

make a new mad max or leathal wepon movie and dont forget to include the line im getting to old for this shit.

[typicallistener]

When I'm pounding a girl in her ass, is it rude to put a finger in there too

[hayroob]

Originally Posted by typicallistener

When I'm pounding a girl in her ass, is it rude to put a finger in there too

it's a favor

[dangerous]

Originally Posted by typicallistener

When I'm pounding a girl in her ass, is it rude to put a finger in there too

the polite thing to do is give her a reach around.

[Anxious Nerd]

I'm too scared to post anything about myself on this thread. It's like the vultures have been pre-notified and one false move and you're a goner.

There was lots of good advice on the original Am I at least Dateable thread and so that's a lot to act upon first.

[dangerous]

Originally Posted by Anxious Nerd

I'm too scared to post anything about myself on this thread. It's like the vultures have been pre-notified and one false move and you're a goner.

There was lots of good advice on the original Am I at least Dateable thread and so that's a lot to act upon first.

first tip. dont worry what other people think of you, the only opinion of you that matters is your own. just remember when you meet someone new and your worrying what they think of you that they are doing exactly the same thing and worrying what you think of them. so when someone says something not nice about you, thats there problem not yours.

[Anxious Nerd]

Originally Posted by dangerous

first tip. dont worry what other people think of you.......

Ultimately if I do what I want without worrying about other people's judgement, I behave inanely trying to garner praise and attention like a 5 year old.
Look at me mommy! Look! Pleeeaaase, you're not looking!
Strangely enough, this type of behaviour leads people to believe that you're a 5 year old and they aren't too impressed. I have to temper my actions so that I'm not just being needy.
I know that this doesn't refute what you said, as I'm still looking to others to give me a sense of self worth, but just that it's not as straight forward as turning off an intellectual filter.

[aunt_helen]

Originally Posted by Anxious Nerd

Ultimately if I do what I want without worrying about other people's judgement, I behave inanely trying to garner praise and attention like a 5 year old.
Look at me mommy! Look! Pleeeaaase, you're not looking!
Strangely enough, this type of behaviour leads people to believe that you're a 5 year old and they aren't too impressed. I have to temper my actions so that I'm not just being needy.
I know that this doesn't refute what you said, as I'm still looking to others to give me a sense of self worth, but just that it's not as straight forward as turning off an intellectual filter.

One of the hardest things to learn is to self-validate. As humans, we will always be seeking out others' approval, which isn't a bad thing - we need outside approval in order to incorporate into society. But while you're interacting with others, you need to learn a sense of self-possession and polite confidence. Patience, good humor and observative habits will serve you well. Watch people you admire and try to emulate them. Play a character until it feels more natural. Be that smooth operator you'd like to be, fake it till you make it, etc etc. Seriously. No one is born knowing this shit. Just be brave and try to pick up some moves along the way.