Slampokes

[campy]

Originally Posted by Rok

ok then here goes:

Let her know that its fun and exciting to get her worked up, that it turns you on to turn her on. try soft touches all over the body, light kisses and as you are doing this listen for even the slightest noises, gasps, anything to let you know "yup thats a spot she likes me to do that to."
Note these ideas and thoughts are totally shit if this is a once night stand, then its a race to the finnish, first one there wins! =)

This AND That.

I think letting her know you're into it along the way helps...don't blab through the whole thing but just once in awhile...

Good job Rok!

[Rok]

Originally Posted by campy

This AND That.

I think letting her know you're into it along the way helps...don't blab through the whole thing but just once in awhile...

Good job Rok!

Thanks and you are so right. A partner can take the lead by letting their partner take the lead in a way. Before any guy or gal starts this "evening" sit and really think about your partner, think of the way they love you, how they show they love you and give them love back in that same way. We give love as we would like to receive love. So once we can see the way our partner gives love we can duplicate that in our own way and in turn making our partner feel even more relaxed as well. But yes Campy this is so much about listening, paying attention and in the end having an orgasm that makes your face tingle! =)

Now get out there and cum all over each other and lick her til you talk funny!

[Junkenstein]

Originally Posted by campy

I think letting her know you're into it along the way helps...don't blab through the whole thing but just once in awhile...

absolutely, and that should go on BOTH sides. i guess some people are silent, but not hearing anything from my partner just makes me feel strange, even if body language says more. I want to have all my senses engaged, personally.

[Rok]

Originally Posted by Junkenstein

I want to have all my senses engaged, personally.

very good point that everyone should think about!

[FletchLives]

i'm away from the forums for a couple days and now i'm completely lost in every thread i look at.

[Junkenstein]

Originally Posted by FletchLives

i'm away from the forums for a couple days and now i'm completely lost in every thread i look at.

hahahaha. seconded.

[Draconis]

The guy I'm sleeping with right now is so quiet. At first it was really unnerving, because while I'm not so into my partner being REALLY loud, I want some sound, some indication that you're having a good time. The only way I could tell what he liked was by his breathing or when he'd tighten his hands or something physical. I'm starting to get used to it now, and it makes it that much hotter when he actually does make sounds.

[campy]

Some sound is essential I think....it adds to the experience!