Wife face piercing

[Rhian]

Originally Posted by paecontrol

and the not looking at her was tongue in cheek... I'll just be staring at her eyebrow the whole time.

Ohhh shiny ting! Shiny ting!

I got my nose pierced, not the fave by people I know, but I have my reasons for it, and I like it.

I hope that you can see it compliments her beauty and this isn't the catalyst for some other issue.

[Metzican]

Well in my opition I think she is cheating on you, ur daughter is staying at your wifes sisters house why? She is trying to go against you in every way she knows how. Its that or she wants a devorce. And hanging out with a guy she in the past slept with while you two were together. The whole he is happy is just a blind cover up.

[blackpussy]

Originally Posted by paecontrol

OK, look... Here is the deal. Sorry for wasting your time up until now.

Family goes on vacation to Boston and then back home where wife and I grew up. After two weeks of vacation, I come back home. Wife takes me to the airport and gives me great hug and kiss, says she loves me, and sends me on my way. Two sons, 12 and 10 come home after about 2 more weeks to fish and backpack with me. Daughter stays with Mom. Wife wants to extend vacation by a week - no problem. Wife starts calling less. Wife doesn't call boys. Wife is acting cold and distant and always seems busy. Based on past experience, I don't trust wife so much in certain situations... I check wife's email (she and I both have access to each other's email). She has sent kissy face pictures to ex-boyfriend from her i phone email. I text wife the next day and ask what is going on with her - she is acting different. She texts back that she has had a lot of time to think and maybe she doesn't want to be married anymore. We don't have sex, more like friends. I think wtf? I ask if she is seeing anyone. She says she isn't. I don't ask about pics to ex, but ask if she will go to counseling with me.

Wife asks to stay another week. I say sure, just please, please, please don't do anything that will screw things up between us even more. Next morning, wife gets eyebrow pierced. I haven't said anything about that part of it. I do get mad because it seems like daughter is staying night at family house a lot - which I guess isn't that much since it is only 2 nights a week and it is usually because they have cousins that are her age. But she goes to some undisclosed location. Last night, I text and ask her to please have daughter call when she gets a minute. Text again about an hour and a half later since daughter has not called. No response. Text again. No response. Call, it goes through, not straight to voicemail so phone is not dead. Call/text her sister and friend - no response. I am worried at this point because she is using her sister's POS car, she is staying with her brother in a sketchy as hell neighborhood, etc. and maybe also because I think something is f-ing going on. She finally calls me and says her phone was on vibrate. I ask if daughter is already sleeping, she says yeah. I am irritated and cranky so I let her go. after a few minutes I text her and tell her "Look I am a little upset that you didn't have daughter call. Is she even with you? Did you just forget?" Her response is that daughter stayed with her sister while she went to girl friends. I ask what is going on, she says nothing. I ask why she didn't just tell me where daughter was staying earlier and she says because she didn't want me to think that she was leaving daughter to go do something. I ask what she was doing and she said her friend was upset because of girl stuff and so she went over there. OK, whatever. Today, I text and say that I really want an honest answer - wtf is going on? is she seeing someone? she responds that she is not sleeping with anyone, but if I mean "Nate" (ex-boyfriend she sent pics to), she has talked to him a few times. I ask if she has seen him, she says ya. I ask how many times, were they alone together and did they do ANYTHING whatsoever? Less than a dozen, not really and no was the response. He has a girlfriend and new baby. He is old friend that's all. I explain that it would be nice to know if she is hanging around old boyfriends ahead of time instead of not telling me and then I have to wonder what is going on or think she is hiding things. I tell her I saw pics she sent him and that it hurt me because she sent to him not me. She figured I had seen the pics and that was why I was paranoid.

Then tonight, talking to daughter she says she stayed at cousin's dad's house last night or in other words - my wife's sister's boyfriends house. I ask to talk to mom and tell wife that I am not cool with daughter staying there. she doesn't see the problem. I tell her that I have heard nothing but bad things about the guy. She says it was actually his parents house and parents were home and seemed like good people. I say based on what I had heard about how this guy treats wife's sister, I am still not ok with it and I'm surprised she would think it was ok and can't see my point of view. Fight ensues. She agrees won't happen again but does not think she did anything wrong and resents my insinuation that she is anything less than a good mother.

So - I guess long story short - my life is literally crumbling around me. My wife and daughter are literally thousands of miles. I guess the eyebrow ring was not the big deal, I just didn't want to get into all the other shit until alannanana hit it on the head and black pussy started being mean.

I'm so mean!!!! It's all my fault! Next time you want to start a thread, state the real problem. Don't blame all your marital problems on a piercing. You started the thread so, ultimately you wanted to go into that shit. I initially responded to the douchey position you had to a stupid face piercing not your obviously long term underlying trust problems. My bad for not having ESP. I hope you can make the best choices for you and your children.

[paecontrol]

fuck off and die sorry I couldn't make a post to meet your expectations.

[blackpussy]

Originally Posted by paecontrol

fuck off and die sorry I couldn't make a post to meet your expectations.

WOW

[blackpussy]

Originally Posted by paecontrol

fuck off and die sorry I couldn't make a post to meet your expectations.

WOW! Sorry you didn't meet your wife's expectations, I'm sure that's my fault too.

[paecontrol]

Originally Posted by blackpussy

WOW

I did want to start a conversation on just the piercing - I was prob in the wrong place mentally to just discuss that but I really don't think I'm blaming my marriage problems on the fucking piercing. The fucking piercing is just a glaring sign of my marriage problems and my wife not giving a fuck about my thoughts, feelings, opinions on fucking anything, OK Black Pussy? How the fuck is that for you?

[paecontrol]

Originally Posted by blackpussy

WOW! Sorry you didn't meet your wife's expectations, I'm sure that's my fault too.

yeah, I guess just being a completely doting father, a guy who works his fucking ass off to provide for his family and so his wife can do what the fuck she wants (basically not a whole lot) is just not enough for women anymore, is it Black Pussy?

[Rhian]

Originally Posted by paecontrol

fuck off and die sorry I couldn't make a post to meet your expectations.

That's uncalled for. BlackPussy is a feisty one, yes, but you did open the door to the underlying issues.

Sorry you didn't get the responses you were looking for.

[paecontrol]

Originally Posted by paecontrol

yeah, I guess just being a completely doting father, a guy who works his fucking ass off to provide for his family and so his wife can do what the fuck she wants (basically not a whole lot) is just not enough for women anymore, is it Black Pussy?

I did NOTHING to deserve this. Except maybe picking an incredibly selfish person for a mate.