How do i kick out my roommate?

[spooky]

Originally Posted by jesikat

if her mother has been paying the rent, don't you think it's fair for her to know what her daughter has been spending the money on?

its not my place to impose my own morals on someone else's mother. where her money comes from is NOT your business, you obviously do not share the same views and values as her and her mother, it is not your place to do anything of the sort.

from what i can tell, youre grossly overreacting. secure your shit, put a lock on your door. deal with it or move out, she doesnt want to and says she cannot afford it. she may be in a bad place in her life, and there you are, kicking her while she is down. maybe try helping her instead?

[jesikat]

Originally Posted by spooky

maybe try helping her instead?

ha. ha ha ha. ha.

[spooky]

Originally Posted by jesikat

ha. ha ha ha. ha.

nobody else is giving you an alternate point of view, they just want to see a fight, and its not my place to tell you to grow up, the world isnt always fair.

[Saint Marcos]

You let a crazy-person loose in my car? I think I'm missing sunglasses!
(I figured you were talking about her. She was definately a little 'different', sorry to hear she's gone down hill since then.)

I find myself agreeing w/HighMike on both his points.
--Document what is happening. This e-mail helps, but I would suggest a spiral bound note book logging dates & times of what you have directly witnessed (be objective, saying something like, 'she's being a real cunt today' wouldn't be helpful). Hope you never need it, but if you do, its there for you.
--Seriously consider moving out. I know it sucks, but if your lease is reasonable close to the end of your lease (w/in 6months), then start looking now for a new place & line something up. In the meantime buy a secure lock for your bedroom & try to keep the important stuff in there. As hard as it might be, I'd still guess its worth waiting through. Not that you need to tell her anything, but at least then you could then tell her that you & your BF are "getting serious" and are going to look into getting your own place together. Unless she (or I guess her mom) can afford the entire rent each month, she'll have to get her own place, too.

I'm not sure I can help much, but since I'm in the area, I can certainly help you move if you need me to!

Somehow the world's first LollerCat seems completely appropriate here.

[Rye]

Originally Posted by spooky

its not my place to impose my own morals on someone else's mother. where her money comes from is NOT your business, you obviously do not share the same views and values as her and her mother, it is not your place to do anything of the sort.

from what i can tell, youre grossly overreacting. secure your shit, put a lock on your door. deal with it or move out, she doesnt want to and says she cannot afford it. she may be in a bad place in her life, and there you are, kicking her while she is down. maybe try helping her instead?

okay dumbass how about the fact that they are or were friends and her friend or x friend is now using herion? Not a good reason as a decent human being to look out for her friend? rent and lease aside?

[EastTexas]

Originally Posted by jesikat

if her mother has been paying the rent, don't you think it's fair for her to know what her daughter has been spending the money on?

Don't let this person dictate how you act. Just because she is shitty, doesn't mean you have to be too.
It's really not your place to get between she and her mother.
It's a frustrating bad situation, and it takes a lot of will to just let it go and move on.
When you look back on it in the future how do you want to feel about how you handled it?

[spooky]

Originally Posted by Rye

okay dumbass how about the fact that they are or were friends and her friend or x friend is now using herion? Not a good reason as a decent human being to look out for her friend? rent and lease aside?

i dont know the situation, im not going to venture into the land of conjecture. and i dont know how jesi feels about you saying shes not a decent human being. dumbass made me laugh, in an alanis morissette kind of way. jesi may not have my sense of humor though.

[Ucee]

Jesi,

reading all of your posts, to sum up:

you don't like your loud, likely drug-abusing hippie roommate because she lies around doing nothing and talks shit on the phone. Besides she took some of your booze from the fridge. I can relate to that.

Meanwhile, you went into her room, searched her personal stuff (without finding any of yours, I assume), posted photos of her personal issues on the internet and host a thread for planning how to expose her and kick her out of her apartment, suggesting unrelated people from the internet to call her family.

Now, which would be a bigger violation of privacy and personal property?

[Ucee]

So how did you end up living with this person in the first place?

[spooky]

Originally Posted by Ucee

Now, which would be a bigger violation of privacy and personal property?

i was trying to sugar coat and lead her down to that thought process. maybe she has Rye do the thinking for her(jab at Rye, not jesi)?