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View Poll Results: During sex, are you more into dominating or being submissive?
I'm more into domination, bitch! 86 49.14%
I'm more into submission, master. 89 50.86%
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Old 03-24-2009, 06:09 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Old 03-24-2009, 08:26 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I'm a sub. It's part of my relationship dynamic; has been since the get go. While the typical physical elements are certainly present it's pride, arrogance, reluctance, and power given/taken whence comes the eroticism. No wilting flowers; you aren't conquering through surrender.

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Old 03-24-2009, 09:16 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I'm a sub. It's part of my relationship dynamic; has been since the get go. While the typical physical elements are certainly present it's pride, arrogance, reluctance, and power given/taken whence comes the eroticism. No wilting flowers; you aren't conquering through surrender.
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Old 03-24-2009, 11:42 PM   #4 (permalink)
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This whole thing seems like its over complicating sex. Keith’s right, just feel that shit out. So much of this BDSM stuff seems to be based on trust, which I assume must make casual sex very difficult.
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I never used the list, it was shown to me by a person who did. And it's not meant for people who are in an established relationship and like BDSM but more for people from the BDSM comunnity who plan SM sessions. It's like the hanky code in the gay circuit, it's supposed to help out people with clarifying some of their more extreme turn on and turn offs.

Generally, if you're in an ongoing and healthy sexual relationship, things should come natural...

Two bits about the show: people who lash out at Obama for half a joke he said on LENO are just whiny assholes who are looking for an excuse to bitch about him. Plus, retarded people are not that sensitive about jokes, it's always their parents who are. I worked with some kids with down syndrome or various handicaps and more often than not they were the ones to crack jokes on their own condition. The parents were the bitchy, overprotective ones who were more busy complaining than loving their own kids. Fuck those people, i guess that angry attitude is just a cover up of their own idiotic isssues with their kids (They're embarassed at them, so they get angry even at a vague hint to a joke. The kids couldn't give a fuck).

One more: Chemda' attitude on the open relationship issue is just great. She's open to discuss everything with keith if any problem should arise. I wish there were more people like her (or keith) that are open to discussion, than the majority of "like it or leave it" beings that are out there.

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Old 03-25-2009, 06:46 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Oh how I wish I hadn't been in class so I could have called into this show and explained myself more.

The list you got was much more detailed than the one I went through with my husband (it was in a book, BDSM 101 by Jay Wiseman), it was much shorter and grouped into more general categories with some specifics. The list that you received from Jeremy is pretty freaking detailed, and I think probably mainly intended for people who go to BDSM clubs, where it would be a lot more important to go through when doing a one night stand, which I don't think is a good idea anyways. I did send you a link to the info@keithandthegirl email with a shorter list (about 6 pages) that you can complete online. And of course my husband and I didn't go through each detailed item, once you know you aren't into getting pissed on, you can cross several other things out.

By the way, BDSM stands for Bondage Domination Sado-Masochist (sp?)

For me personally, I started having dreams about being in a submissive role. It wasn't so much about getting spanked perse, just doing things that my love wanted me to do and pleasing him. Its not something we do 24/7 or even every time we have sex. I think the easiest way to explain it is a form of role play that I really freaking enjoy. My husband is not normally dominate, in fact I am the dominate one in the relationship (the one who makes the majority of the decisions, after discussing it with him of course, but he usually just goes along with it). Sometimes I just want to let go of that and have him tell me what he wants me to do. It is incredibly hot to have him go into that role because it isn't something he usually does.

I could go on and on about this but I don't want to ramble on and on.
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No offense to Dahonay, but if the contents of that letter are anything to go on it's lucky you had the kid, you weren't going much further up that corporate ladder.
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No offense to Dahonay, but if the contents of that letter are anything to go on it's lucky you had the kid, you weren't going much further up that corporate ladder.


You're right. That's why I own my own business now. Thanks for the concern.

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You're right. That's why I own my own business now. Thanks for the concern.

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Oh and to add on...she won't say it, but that business is bringing in good bank. Just making clear Dah isn't running some mom and pop outfit here. She knows her shit and does it well.
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